One of the major way in relating is listening. As what Wikipedia defines Active listening is a communication technique that requires the listener to understand, interpret, and evaluate what (s)he hears. The ability to listen actively can improve personal relationships through reducing conflicts, strengthening cooperation, and fostering understanding.
Are you an active listener?
This video will help you understand about our communication that slowly fades as new technologies improved.
Hopefully you will become a conscious listener that would creates understanding and build effective and genuine relationship to the people around you.